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Divorce Mediation 

💔 Where You Are Now

If It Must End – Divorce with Integrity. This is for Christian men and couples who are walking through divorce—but want to do it with honor, clarity, and peace. You’ve tried. You’ve prayed. You’ve worked to restore your marriage.


And now, it looks like the covenant is ending.

This doesn’t mean your mission is over. It means your posture matters more than ever.
You still have a chance to reflect the love of Christ, protect your children, and preserve your witness - even in the courtroom.

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Whether you’re preparing for mediation, reviewing a settlement agreement (MSA), or navigating emotional fallout, this workshop gives you the tools, posture, and peace to walk forward like a disciple.

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🧭 What You Receive

This isn’t therapy. This is discipleship through fire. You’ll be guided step-by-step through spiritual reconstruction with practical, soul-level work:

  • 2 Private Coaching Sessions 

  • Printable Worksheets & Devotionals

  • Unlimited Email & Text Support

  • Christian Legal Awareness (e.g., MSA, custody, spousal support, etc.)

  • Spiritual Coaching and Discipleship

  • Co-Parenting Communication Tools

  • Forgiveness & Peace Building Resources

  • Closing Blessing and Post-Decree Co-Parenting Transition Plan

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💡 How It Works

 

Each session is structured around:​

  • A biblical teaching rooted in peace, covenant, and leadership

  • Collaborative design thinking exercises to facilitate agreement and clarity

  • Conclusive agreement of clarity, confession, or next-steps on key topics such as asset division and custody

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You won’t just survive mediation - You will lead through it with grace.

Week by Week Overview

1 .1

Lay down the sword

Divorce is devastating, but retaliation destroys more. Surrender your weapons - bitterness, revenge, pride - and make room for peace.

  • Teaching:

    • Understand the scientific evidence of divorce trauma on the former couple and your children and how to use biblical teachings to neutralize the negative impacts 

  • Deliverables: ​

    • Mediation Readiness Worksheet

    • Christian Mediation Posture Template

  • Exercises: ​

    • Identify emotional triggers and non-negogitiables

    • Write a private confessional between you and God

    • Begin daily surrender prayer until divorce is finalized

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Prepare for Mediation

Scripture calls us to be slow to speak and quick to listen. Learn biblical strategies for de-escalating conflict and engaging with respect.

  • Teaching: ​

    • Learn how to speak truth and stand up for yourself through Christ's love - and avoid making wounds worse.

  • Deliverables: ​

    • Language Redeemer Guide

    • Key Questions to Ask in Mediation

    • Shared Definition of Success

  • Exercises: ​​​

    • Reframe one conflict with peacemaking language

    • Prepare 3 “calm-down” phrases to use in mediation

1.3

Emotional, Spiritual & Legal Readiness

Just as David prepared for battle with honor and obedience to God, you’ll prepare for mediation with supernatural wisdom.

  • Teaching: ​​

    • Understand God's love and plans to prosper you so you walk composed, humble, and anchored in your faith - not fear.

  • Deliverables: ​​​

    • Mediation Settlement Checklist

    • Courtroom Scripture Cards

    • Emotional Check-In

  • Exercises: ​

    • Memorize one defining verse for the courtroom 

    • Review potential MSA topics and initial stance

    • Surrender control of outcomes in prayer​

2.1

Protect Your Children

You’re not just ending a marriage. You're creating a new parenting partnership. This session prepares you to lead your children spiritually and emotionally through the storm.

  • Teaching: ​​

    • Learn how to create a spiritual covering over your family and shift from being defensive ex-husband to devoted father.

  • Deliverables: ​​

    • Mother & Father Responsibilities Framework

    • Co-Parenting Communication Plan

    • Family Stability Planning Grid

  • Exercises:

    • Create a shared parenting schedule

    • Craft personalized peace and safety prayers for your children​

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Financial Stewardship

Money is a test of lordship. You’ll learn how to give with grace, let go of control as you steward your finances and honor God with your provision.

You give not because she earned it, but because Christ gave to you.

  • Teaching: ​​

    • Understanding the generosity, blessing and favor of God when it comes to wealth and provision

  • Deliverables: ​​​​

    • Financial Humility Worksheet

    • Generosity Ledger

    • Financial Stewardship Plan to Update Living Will & Testament

  • Exercises: ​

    • List out financial control patterns

    • Build a giving strategy to seed blessings

    • Pray for your ex’s wellbeing​

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End of Honor

Walk forward in faith and peace - with yourself, with her, and with God.

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  • Teaching: ​​​​

    • Paul said, “I have fought the good fight.” This is your final act of spiritual leadership: end well, speak blessing, and step forward into fatherhood and freedom.

  • Deliverables: ​​​​

    • Forgiveness Letter Template

    • Closing Prayer & Blessing Worksheet

    • Fatherhood Forward Vision Guide

  • Exercises: ​

    • Write a legacy commitment

    • Deliver a blessing to your former spouse

    • Prepare for post-decree parenting

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Don't waste another moment. Become the man that God called you to be. Call us now.

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